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"Self-Healing"
How to Act Against Your Selfishness and Control
by Neil Mastellone
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Only Two Ways to Live: Lovingly or Selfishly.We cannot be loving and selfish at the same time, so we must choose which way we will be in each new moment. It is very important how we choose.
Those tired of the pain and frustration of the selfish way of life, will find abundant information useful for self-healing and loving change. It is possible to choose out of pain and dysfunction. After all, we willfully, defiantly, and reactively chose into our
negative inner states and experiences. With enough willingness and sincerity, anyone, any age, can self-heal and start living a more meaningful, nurturing, creative life.
Discover new perspectives and proven techniques that help you identify and work against subconscious negative agreements, selfish behavior patterns, and destructive reactions.
Selfish choices always result in negativity and pain. There is no escaping this inevitable fact of life. Use the unique tools in this book to change in substantial, positive, and lasting ways. Loving change awaits your right choices.
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Chapter 4
§ Scientists are observing that the fundamental unit of action appears to be uncertain and unpredictable. Could everything in the universe, even the tiniest molecule, be endowed with free choice?
§ There are only two ways a person can approach life and relationship, either lovingly or selfishly. It is not possible to be both ways at the same time, so, in any given moment, we must choose.
§ Everything we do is the result of a choice.
§ Every choice is a cause with a corresponding effect. In addition, each one of us, regardless of age, is fully responsible for both the cause and the effects of our choices.
§ There is never an exception to the inevitable link between our intentions and choices and the situations, relationships, and experiences that we create with them. This is true whether intentions and choices are positive or negative, loving or unloving, responsible or irresponsible, or, enacted consciously or subconsciously.
§ In each new moment, we stand alone with our choice--and how it relates to what we know is right, loving, and true. Because of that fact, it could be said that every choice we make is a “moral choice.”
§ Some choices have particularly long-term, far-reaching, profound effects on how we think, feel, and act. However, most people refuse to see or acknowledge that their choices are the root cause of their behavior and circumstances. Historically, we have gone to great lengths to deny, downplay, or rationalize-away this fundamental truth. In doing so, we keep ourselves cut-off from the truth about our ability to heal and change in truly loving ways.
§ Being nice is a choice. Hurting is a different kind of choice. Expressing truthfully is a choice. So is lying. Acting in lovingly responsible ways is a choice. Reacting and denying responsibility is also a choice. Thinking lies and illusions is a choice. Dealing in truth and reality is another, much better, choice. Abusing drugs or alcohol is also a choice. So is abusing children. Learning is a choice. Not learning is a choice; do not believe it, just ask any grade schoolteacher.
§ We cease to think clearly and become confused because we choose to become confused. We do so whenever we are refusing to be responsible for our choices and circumstances.
§ All of what we understand, we choose to understand. In addition, much of what we do not understand, we choose not to understand.
§ Either a person is willingly doing what is right, or he or she is willfully indulging in some type of selfish reaction and selfish control; refusing to give, love, and act rightly.
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