Peek Inside "All About Us" Book www.HomosexualityWeGetReal.com Home     Site Map     Case Studies  About Research Project    About Case Studies    About eBooks Contact Us       Buy Now   192 pages   Instantly Download e-Book   $4.99     Notify me when print book and other ebooks become available     Home     Site Map     Case Studies Samples  About Research Project  About Case Studies    About eBooks Terms & Conditions     Privacy Policy     Contact Us       "All About Us" Exploring Human Nature and Behavior by Neil Mastellone Description: Attempts to set the record straight about human nature and behavior.  No fancy language.  This is a clear report about how we choose to be and why our lives are so negative and painful.   Peek Inside   Chapter 3 Selfish Behavior Patterns   .   Selfish behavior patterns are human software programs.  We cannot see them, nonetheless, we regularly and subconsciously choose to energize and enact them.  When we do, we act and react in controlled, predictable, repetitive, mechanical, unloving ways.  There are negative consequences to those choices, and we experience them on a moment-to-moment basis.   Selfish behavior patterns are visible in the habits we display, also in the inner and outer negative experiences we repeatedly re-create. Selfish behavior patterns are subconscious psychological structures stored as memory in the energy body.  We activate and their associated pattern-ideas subconsciously by choice.  We use them to “program” ourselves for subconsciously controlled selfish behaviors, selfish reactions, and the experience of a wide range of negative emotions.    A behavior pattern is a selfish tool that we subconsciously use to orchestrate selfishly controlled, idea-based behaviors that are essentially unloving.   If we are to evolve ourselves from selfish beings into loving beings, we will have to “de-program” ourselves, and stop basing behaviors on selfishly controlled ideas.   Most of the information in this chapter emerged from the clairvoyant reports of this author’s co-researcher Jean, who can see and interpret the energies of a person’s behavior patterns.  The following is what Jean describes in her readings.      The structure of a selfish behavior pattern is comprised of a main idea, surrounded, and supported, by a group of associated ideas.  The supporting ideas are psychological satellites that relate to, support, and reinforce a pattern’s main idea.  Individual behavior patterns link to other behavior patterns within the subconscious, forming a network of patterns that, in combination, act as a complex selfish behavior software system.   Core-level behavior patterns consist of selfish ideas subconsciously taken-on from favored selfish parent.  This happened while we were still fetuses in the womb.  The download was part of a basic child-to-parent negative agreement entered into with the parent who had the same selfish disposition as us.  As we grew and matured, many of those parent-related patterns and pattern-ideas were personalized and modified.   We also began creating and adding entirely new behavior patterns, as we discovered behaviors and reactions that helped us selfishly get what we wanted, and avoid what we did not want from people and situations.                               An example of a behavior pattern that every selfish person possesses, in some form, relates to deception and lying.  The main idea of the pattern is: I HAVE TO LIE!  Supporting ideas, which will vary slightly from person to person, might be: BECAUSE IF I DON’T LIE I WON’T GET WHAT I WANT.  BECAUSE MY CIRCUMSTANCES DEMAND THAT I AM DISHONEST AND DECEPTIVE.  BECAUSE IF I DON’T LIE PEOPLE WILL KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT ME.  BECAUSE IT IS DANGEROUS TO TELL THE TRUTH.  BECAUSE IF I DON’T LIE I CAN’T CONTROL.  The above pattern is a fear-based dishonest pattern.   Another fear-based pattern is associated with non-acceptance.  The main idea of this pattern is I DO NOT WANT TO BE HERE!  Ideas supporting that main idea might be BECAUSE NO ONE LOVES ME.  BECAUSE MY CIRCUMSTANCES ARE TOO HARD.  BECAUSE I CAN NEVER GET WHAT I WANT.  BECAUSE IT IS DANGEROUS TO CONFRONT AND EASIER TO AVOID AND MENTALLY FLY AWAY.   An anger-based pattern that has the main idea MY ANGER IS MY POWER! could have supporting ideas such as: BECAUSE I USUALLY GET MY WAY WHEN I GET ANGRY.  BECAUSE PEOPLE BECOME AFRAID AND DO WHAT I WANT WHEN I AM ANGRY.  BECAUSE MY ANGER HELPS ME TO ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING GOOD.   A selfish person is always enacting one type of selfish behavior pattern or another.  The only exception is, when in those rare moments, the person is choosing to act rightly and be lovingly responsible to the people with whom he or she is interacting.   We use selfish patterns to strengthen destructive anger-based attitudes such as competition, aggressiveness, and blame.  Patterns also underlie fear-based attitudes such as helplessness and self-pity.  In addition, we use selfish behavior patterns to drive self-defeating, controlling, and abusive behaviors such as substance abuse and sexual abuse.   The fact that we hold and enact our patterns and pattern-ideas subconsciously, makes many negative and destructive actions, reactions, and feelings seem uncontrolled, and caused by a biological happening.  That is never the case.  Each activity is a subconsciously orchestrated action, reaction, or feeling triggered, modulated, sustained, or terminated subconsciously at will, always with deliberate subconscious intention.  The choice to enact a behavior pattern is always to the detriment of the person and anyone he or she is closely touching.  End or Peek  []     Buy Now   192 pages   Instantly Download e-Book   $4.99     Peek Inside Another Book

Top   ♥  Tell a Friend about this Site   www.HomosexualityWeGetReal.com Home     Site Map     Case Studies  About Research Project    About Case Studies    About eBooks Terms & Conditions    Privacy Policy    Contact Us Upfront Press Inc, P.O. Box 30, Elephant Butte, NM 87935   upfrontpress@starband.net Website Copyright © 2011 Page last updated August 21, 2011